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Wow on the response to the dream. I have seen visions in dreams all my life and agree that God will use things to symbolize in order to help us by items we can relate to. I really wish that I could share a dream I had recently with you to hear your view. About the abusive husband again. I read a book about men who hate women and the women who love them. It opened my eyes to how I had such deep issues from my abuse as a child and how I loved in the face of not being loved back. Like a sacrifice of my self, as if I had no value. Anyway I began to realize my husband was kind to others but not to me. He suffers from issues deep within himself that have to do with his childhood as well and his self hate needs a target. He did not see me as worthless and powerless he worked hard to try to tear me down. I too became brain washed that he was good and I had issues because I wanted something from him. I wanted what he could not give, he hated himself and me for that. When I realized the dynamics of a misogynist, I prayed for God to heal me and deliver me from the power of the lies I had believed. I will pray for the power of the lies to be revealed so that you can begin to see the truth you already are being warned by and comforted by in the wisdom of these wonderful people who respond to you. Thank you all for allowing me to be here. I really needed someplace to be during this transition in my life.

Hi, I am new here. I am in the process of a divorce from an emotionally abusive situation. I believe that it is true God hates divorce however there has to be a marriage for there to be a divorce. If a man is abusive and unhealthy to the point that he mistreats, curses, hits, neglects, accuses falsely, the woman he is sleeping with I know that it is not a marriage but a situation. I do believe that the parameters for marriage is that the two become one and the woman is loved like Jesus loves the church and a woman desires her husband. There is forsaking others and cleaving. Abuse makes none of that possible. That's just what I have found out. As a child of an abusive childhood, it takes years to undo the messages that you get about your worth when an abuser is in a position of power and is supported as being worth more than you because that's who gets all the prayer and attention. When they curse the God everyone is praying to for help it gets very painful and distorting. I am so grateful to find a place to look up information about my dreams. I have been seeing visions that have come to pass since I was 5. God has been so faithful and now as I am being delivered from the soul ties and having my eyes opened to truth I am still being warned and instructed. I stopped trusting while I was entangled with my abuser. 8 years.