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Zane Lacquer

Is it just me or...

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Well,, i got this one friend, she's my classmate... We are both 16 this year and we've known each other for many years and our friendship used to be so strong. We share common hobbies and both of us had fun chatting and fooling around, making jokes and such in the class. We almost talked in the phone every night too. Anyway, i think i ever/still lay a crush on her - although im not sure.

However that was like two years ago. I can't tell why we almost barely talk to one another face-to-face ever since. Right now we could only communicate through FB, online or SMS. Is this weird?


Our relationship doesn't wear out but frankly speaking.. it's now dull for a bit. When we meet, she rarely started any conversation like she'd always do. On the other hand, i personally think that she has change a lot these past years.. The way she socialize with people and the kinds of friends she's making out with (by the way, she's a popular girl_got many friends in class, everyone loves her). I can't manage talking to her at school. These stuff make a bigger gap between us, making it more impossible for me to speak up to her.

I've talked about this to her and she admitted it. She told me she found it kinda hard to talk to me face to face too.. I know we still could chat Online and things seem just fine there,.. But isn't this the thing that makes everything awkward? I mean.. yeah, well.. i hope you guys understand Sad

im desperate x( please help!

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Oh that happened to me too like 4 years ago. There was a guy in my class that I never noticed much or talk with. One day he added me in vacations and we began to talk...a lot. When classes started it was very awkward, but with time it got better xD.

I think you should try to talk the same things in the same way you do online. I think its easier to talk and express yourself when you dont have to see the other's face =P

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Thanks for the advice Gabs.. i'll put some more effort on that...
what makes it difficult is that she's always surrounded with other students and they seem like living in a different world. Two years ago i was one of them, i took a big part in the class too but no more now since my parents demand me to focus with my study. Also, i dont really go along with some of her friends.
But anyway, once again thanks!

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