Christal

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Please pray for my husband and I to be able to sell our business, we have someone looking at it. We pray for a fair price. We belieive it's time to move on and begin to do the things God created us to do. Thank you brothers and sisters !

Hello all, I asked for prayer earlier for peace, dealing with my husband and a church situation. I am asking for more help please. I can see some changes happening in my husband and I want them to take place in his heart, not in just behavior I do see God moving. I ask that you pray that I trust God to move in my husbands heart and I trust that God can work through my husband. I fall into fear that history will repeat itself if I don't try to control everything. We had attended a large church that I truely believe God is working in. We have tried other places also...( you have to be able to use your gifts there ) My husband seems to be drawn to the larger church , and while I'm not sure I want to allow the Holy Spirit to lead through my husband . If I told him I didn't want to go there he would follow that lead, but I do believe in the covering of the husband . So please pray that I can be open , and that we can find a home. Thanks again :blushing: Christaldee

Thanks to everyone. I do believe the word that keeps coming to me is to praise. And know who we are in Christ and who we serve. We have already left the church (2 yrs ago) but as you can see the devil is not giving up on hindering but God is bigger and I do believe we will come out with new understanding and new songs. As the confrontation was happeneing with my husband and the pastor (they both were wrong nuf said) God put this song in my heart and I just started singing it on the way down the street. though I walk through the valley of pain once again though I climb the highest mountain of my faith I will fear no evil for You hold my hand and I will cling to Your promise of love yes Jesus loves me....yes I know He loves me....yes Jesus loves me...the Bible tells me so I didn't know how prophetic that was at the time...... Thanks again for the support Christal

I am really struggeling with life right now. I believe my husband has aspergers syndrome, which the Lord revield to me a few years ago. There are a number of things that show that. I will not get into that. He is a wonderful husband and father who loves the Lord and his family. He's very intelligent almost at the genius level and is one of the most talented musicians I've seen. Plays all by ear. My problem is he can be very socially awkward at times, and if you don't take the time to get him you will just think he's "wierd" or trying to manipulate you . This has caused alot of hurt and pain really within the church. Not really to get into a lot of it, but we helped plant a church and he was leading music (his passion) he can be confusing and very blunt with people and that didn't go over very well. To make a long story short, he stepped down and they brought in another worship leader that didn't work out , my husband did become friends with him to this day. He was asked to step down , then another came in , that didn't work out, then before the next one came in my husband wnet to the pastor who had been his friend and said he wanted to lead and it wouldn't cost the church anything.You have to understand I was in the worship team too and at practices they would always look at my husband and ask him how to do things and say what do you think, this went on at every practice. Well they met for the last time and it was a disaster. Alot of very hurtful things were said I'm sure on both sides and being aspergers my husband really had a melt down . When he is tired and has too much coming at him it turns into the flight or fight. With him the rage comes up . He told the pastor he felt betrayed and robbed. You see the last worship leader we had prophecised over my husband and said he could go anywhere and lead worship. But that day the pastor said he didn't feel the Lord when my husband lead. I know it scared the pastor and he started trying to cast out the devil from my husband which made it worse. My husband has always listened to the Lord. He has to be able to process things in his time. Its like having a outlet thats sparking because it's not connecting with the plug and someone keeps trying to ram the plug in anyway. My issues have beome fear. He was hurt so badly, he has only had a couple meltdowns since we have been married for 28 years and that had to do with him feeling betrayed and left behind or pushed aside. I want to connect with Gods people but I don't want to go through anything like this again. I know all he wants is to be accepted me too. We had started going to a church the Sunday following this incedent. He really liked this church but it's large and I don't believe the Lord wants us to plug in there. We stoped going to church for about 5 months. I just am so scared I get sick sometimes. We started back about 3 weeks ago going to a different church. We really like it. I believe he still has unforgivness and bitterness over this. He doesn't want to give but would like to connect. He has a group of older men he meets with for bible study each week wnd like I said He loves the Lord and listens. The day afer the blow up he came in to me and said" I fell like I need to apologise ," The lord had spoke. He sent an email that I looked at and I don't think the pastor ever responded. And just a side note, I had gone to the pastor a couple months before with information on aspergers I pour out my heart to him and his wife on this , when I left I felt relieved thinking my husband would be understood. I guess not, the pastor approached him in the wrong ways. This is not something we go around talking about or telling everyone. We have talked to each other and my husband know he's different. I'm sorry this is so long . I just felt I could pour out my heart here and recieve prayer and maybe a word. I'm so sad. Thank you.

Thank you sweetie, I did not take offense in anyway . You are sharing your heart and insite in this situation. Thanks for the heart felt prayer. Christal

No. I don't believe so. He was always home, and she was either at work or at my house alot of the time. He just turned 24 and she is 23. Married almost 4 years. Also I have kept a open relationship with him, from the very beginning. He knows what he has done, he told me how sorry he was for not doing what he promised at the alter. It's frustrating.

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Hello everyone. I would like to ask for prayer for my daughter and her husband. They have been seperated for a year.They have a little boy Julius (grandmas boy ) They were not ready to get married and after a couple years he just shut down. He would not keep a job, and was lying to her all the time. They were evicted because he hadn't paid the rent in 5 months. But all along he was telling her it was taken care of. His parents paid the pass due and made him get a job, and he let it go again until she moved out. She hasn't handled things the best either. They get along great as long as they are not talking about life issues.( finances mainly) She has been supporting there son and doing well. She really got on her feet, paid off pass due bills and is moving forward in a responsible way. He is suppose to pay child support but will not . Even after attending a meeting with her and having it court ordered. He said he would and she thought maybe things where turning around but ? He is a good Dad other being irresponsible, very imature. I really want there marraige to work out. I'm affraid he will get arrested because he is not paying. There are still alot of bitterness on my daughters part. She now has trust issues with him. They will have alot to overcome. They are both believers, but I have to say not pressing into the Lord or seeking Him. I know God can turn this around HE is able. So please join me in praying. I do covet your prayers. Christal