yyoung09

Hello, have been such a long time since my last post. Things were very difficult for my family until last summer. Still going through some things but God has been so good to me. I would like to ask you for counsel. I work at the church I attend. Last December, we had a Christmas banquet at my church. I went with my children and it was just us at the table. Then, a man and his teenager daughter joined our table. He seem it a nice man and he normally attended the Spanish services and a mutual friend gave him tickets for the banquet. I started to see him more in the other services and wold chat with him. I tell you that I was not attracted to him physically, It was when he would speak of God with so much love that I found my self attracted to him. I could sense that he was interested in me but he never said anything. Then one day while we were talking, I found out he was separated and was still married. Here is his what he said: He got married in 2012 to a lady he did not take the time to know. Three months into the marriage he realized that marriage was not going nowhere. she told him that was still in love with her deceased husband. ( she had a son with her deceased husband. He said that he slept in the couch. She left the house. I was disappointed to find out that he was married. He said they just never went to get divorced. Now, after that, I told him that I was not going to talk to him any more until he get his paper in order. weeks ago I found out by a friend to him confide this things that the lady has signed a waiving that the marriage has finished and that he has to wait on the period of 45 days until he is divorced. He told me that he has prayed to God for a specif wife and he is completely sure that I am that woman. At the moment we are not having any communication other than just hello. Until he is completely free. I am praying for a husband also, and I have the feeling that it could be him but I don't know yet 100%. I am praying for confirmation. My question is: Am I sinning if I wish to talk to him to get to know about him, while he is waiting his final divorce? I will not go out with him or anything like that. Thank you for your help! I want to the right thing

Hello! Aw thank you very much for you advises! Oh yeah you are all right! This is not easy. But I must say that he is doing much better! praise God!. He stills tries me! I am thinking to change to only christian channels. Even Disney has program that I feel that will shift his mind from God. The lates thing he told me was that, he has a different theory of God. He also told me that I wanted to change him. Oh Lord this is not easy for me. I feel that I need to make it equal for everybody at home. He has 4 sibblings. I dont think that he can be in his room watching a program or cartoon that I dont want his sister and brothers be looking at it too. He want them to get out of the room, so he can wath it. This are battles that I have with him. I dont have brothers between my mom and dad. so, I have no idea how this is. Thank you so much for your help. It really help to know that I am not the only one with this battle. God bless all! Yasmin

Good Morning! I need help. I am new in Christ. I am single mom. I have a 11 year old son, that lived with his dad for 6 months. My son was not living with me when i acepted Christ into my life. He is now here with me to stay. Now, I see that he has games that are rated it "M". I would have not let it own any of them. He even has movies that are not appropiate for his age. I have taken them away. I am starting to feel emotional drain. I want to be obedient to God. My son even told me that I have change. Like I am exagerinting. I am not sure how to deal with this. Any help it will be very appreciated! God bless you Yasmin