MJ, I have learned to ask God what he wants me to put in his house and I allow myself to be lead by the spirit to do so. Be strong in the Lord and the power of his might put on the whole armour of God, that you may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil. This scripture came to mind as I was strolling through the posts 1 Peter 5:6-10 Humble yourselves therefore under the mighty hand of God, that he may exalt you in due time. Casting all your care upon him for he careth for you. Be sober, be vigilant; because your advesary the devil, as a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking whom he may devour: Whom resist steadfast in the faith, knowing that the same afflictions are accomplished in your brethren that are in the world. But the God of all grace, who hath calledus unto his eternal glory by Christ Jesus, after that ye have suffered for a while, make you perfect, stablish, strenghten, settle you. Continue to pray for your leader because the enemy will use whomever to try to shake your faith and if you and your husband were being disobidient then the devil would not bother you. Give God praise in ALL things and GOD BLESS.