Well,,,,there was a thread opened by a lovely person who offered foxes and panpipes to potential gifters who should sell the items and use hlaf the proceeds to help and gift others. So, I entered but wasn't luck (fair enough) but there were 30 lucky people. So - nice thing to do huh...and all of them went on to open gifting or wishing threads - again - all good....Except...today I see a thread called "The WISH FAIRY" opened by someone who I was in the fox / panpipes thread with me. I was a little bit startled to be honest - since she had seen me at that thread and I even bumped her fox auction too. So, just to be nice (and also to see if I got a reaction) I bumped her "Wish Fairy" thread. So, she sends me PM telling me she hopes I don't mind about the thread and that she has asked for her forum name to be changed to The Wish Fairy..hoping I don't mind. I send one back saying - no worries about the thread although I think it's a bti confusing could she change it to something like "the Wishlist Fairy" and for her forum name I think that it could be confusing. I also offered to maybe make a collaboration in the thread She sent me one back saying basically it's too late to change anything and what do I want her to do about it. And she wouldn't want any collaboration...and confusing in what way ? To be honest I was a bit peeved that she didn't PM me before all of that...but basically I ended up sending a PM back saying - look I'm not that precious about the name, and it's a bit late now anyway...I even offered a donation to her thread but now I actually am kind of peeved about it. Since I stopped by there and see people posting "Dear Wish Fairy" (Feel free to give me a slap if you think I'm being precious Frannie - I rely on you to give me a reality check)