ummm i read this book......... and its awsome! and i have been just focusing on God and for bout year now i hav had tremendous growth cuz i hav been at peace with this situation... and just trusting and believing... and God has spoken to me bout my future husband... its all bout trustin God and allowing him to change your mindsets and clean you out... he is your husband first and we should let that be a stronghold in our hearts.. and once we allow him to keep movin and cleanin us he will show you. but we need to be obediant and always put him first... its not hard at all really... somtimes we as christians think that God wont give us a husband or it will take way too long..... (thats what i thought) not at all... as long as we let him align us rite into his perfect will its all gooood