Chiaretta 0 Posted January 23, 2010 Do you know those periods when everything is messed up? Today I feel so blue and depressed... Where should I begin? Well, my dad has a lot of healty problems.... recentely he discovered he has an heart problem since he was born, but his doctor never recognised it... so it went worse and worse and now when he walks too fast or on staircases he can't breath anymore. My sister-in-law, who is like a real sister for me, is 2 months pregnant and we are all so happy, but this morning she woke up and saw some blood.... her doctor told her that is normal, but she's quite scared and honestely i am too.My dad has a little factory here where we live, also my brothers work there, but in this period there isn't any work, and they are always nervous and worried.Furthermore i have so many worries for the college exams, and this morning I argued with my boyfriend. That's all. Sorry for this, but i really needed to give vent to all of my thoughts . Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hannahbananaa 0 Posted January 23, 2010 awwwww... im so sorry hugs for you life has its ups and downs..thats why theres PS, and that why we always try to be nice here...its our little haven! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Chiaretta 0 Posted January 23, 2010 You're right Hannah.... when i come here, it's like I don't think of all my problems for some time... But today I expleded, I'd like some peace and happyness. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hannahbananaa 0 Posted January 23, 2010 i cry when ir really sad... it sounds silly but it helps..no matter how old you are.. a good cry always helps Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Chiaretta 0 Posted January 23, 2010 I don't think it's silly at all! I've cried this morning too.... it really helps to take away some of the sadness inside... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hannahbananaa 0 Posted January 23, 2010 BTW any luck getting the yellow jacket? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Chiaretta 0 Posted January 23, 2010 not at all.... i had forgotten how many junk items there are in RMB!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Monina 0 Posted January 23, 2010 oh, too bad Are you now okay with your boyfriend?College exams will be fine You can do it Always think positive and look at the bright side Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Fashionista 0 Posted January 23, 2010 awwwwwwwwwww!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i hope that everything is solved!!!!!! my best wishes for your dad and sister hope they are better already and everything will turn out to be ok!!!!!!!good luck wish your exams!!!!!! did you receive your order from asos? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Chiaretta 0 Posted January 23, 2010 Thank you Monina! i'm usually an optimistic person, but too many bad things all together..... i'm not talking with my boyfriend right now, and that hurts too.... I should study but i have no concentration at all... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Fashionista 0 Posted January 23, 2010 i agree with monina!!!!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Fashionista 0 Posted January 23, 2010 i'm sure that if explain your boyfriend he will understand! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Chiaretta 0 Posted January 23, 2010 Fashionista wrote:awwwwwwwwwww!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i hope that everything is solved!!!!!! my best wishes for your dad and sister hope they are better already and everything will turn out to be ok!!!!!!!good luck wish your exams!!!!!! did you receive your order from asos?Thank you Fash I haven't received the order yet.... that's another thing that is on my mind.... I know it isn't so important, but i'm afraid I will lose my money Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Fashionista 0 Posted January 23, 2010 aw!!!!!!!!! my sweety!!!!!! my dad also had some health problems lately and i had a midterm on college on monday! i can understand you some how! don't worry i'm sure every problem will be solved soon!!!!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Chiaretta 0 Posted January 23, 2010 Thank you, I hope it too....and good luck for Monday! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Fashionista 0 Posted January 23, 2010 !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! to you tooo!!!!!! i wish there was a way somehow to make you feel better! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Chiaretta 0 Posted January 23, 2010 PSFC makes me feel better hun.... I really feel comfortable here!and Hannah..... Thank you sooooooooooooo much, i can't believe it! that was so sweet!!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Chiaretta 0 Posted January 25, 2010 I spent my worst night ever. Mi sister-in-law has been taken to the hospital and she's gonna lose her baby. i feel bad, sad and angry. it's not fair Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kasijab 0 Posted January 25, 2010 Chiaretta wrote:I spent my worst night ever. Mi sister-in-law has been taken to the hospital and she's gonna lose her baby. i feel bad, sad and angry. it's not fair aw sweetie I'm so sorry. Its never easy when something like this happens ...but our love and thoughts are with you xxxx Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Chiaretta 0 Posted January 25, 2010 Thank you Kasi! She was so happy.... We were all so happy about this baby. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lea75 0 Posted January 25, 2010 Chiaretta wrote:I spent my worst night ever. Mi sister-in-law has been taken to the hospital and she's gonna lose her baby. i feel bad, sad and angry. it's not fair Oh hun I am so sorry to hear this..I cannot imagine how you are feeling at the moment. Sending you huge hugs and lots of love xxx Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hannahbananaa 0 Posted January 25, 2010 im sorry about what happened chiara... you have a little angel in heaven now... looking after you and your family... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Gaiamaiden 0 Posted January 25, 2010 im sorry sweetheart, we are all sending you hugs xxx Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Chiaretta 0 Posted January 25, 2010 Thank you very much girls for your words and thoughts.... I think we all need some time to go through this, and i really hope next time they will be luckier Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
smorkle 0 Posted January 25, 2010 hang in there hun it sounds like life is extremely stressful for you right now. sending you lots of hugs and prayers your way!!! xoxo Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Chiaretta 0 Posted January 25, 2010 Thank you Jeanie.... i'm quite upset today.... i haven't slept at all last night and I have tears always ready.... I hope we will better soon! Thank you everybody Nobody knew about this, except our family, so it's like i can't talk about it with no one.... it helps to give vent to my feelings with somebody! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Zoonie 0 Posted January 25, 2010 Chiara, I read your first post and then later saw the news about the baby, so sad, I'm very sorry.It must seem that nearly everything that could go wrong, is doing at the moment, and it's terribly stressful.Please remember that we all have times when we feel as though life is overwhelming us, but there are positives as well, in that your family will be getting the medical care that they need, and that you do all have each other for love and support.My advice to you would be, don't think about it all, just take one day at time and deal with what has to be dealt with there and then, not all the things that might come after Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Chiaretta 0 Posted January 25, 2010 Zoonie wrote:My advice to you would be, don't think about it all, just take one day at time and deal with what has to be dealt with there and then, not all the things that might come after Thank you Gill for your precious words..... I'll keep in mind your advice, since I'm learning to live day by day just now.... Today i've thought tooooo much about the sad situation of my sister-in-law: "What if it will happen again? What if they don't want to have another baby?...." and that's so painful. I hope the answers will come and they will be as positive as possible! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mayski 0 Posted January 25, 2010 HUuuuuGS Chiaretta! I'm sorry stuff like that always happen to snowball and it gets overwhelming. It is soo okay to vent and just have things out of your system for you don't want it to eat you up inside. I will pray for your sister in law & dad and I'm glad to hear you have love ones around you and no matter what, got to think positive. Feel better and dance/workout/etc. those negative vibes. Save that energy for having fun with friends/boyfriends or crack open those textbooks to study for your college exams. Take cares!mayski Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Chiaretta 0 Posted January 25, 2010 Thank you very much mayski! You are all giving me such a good energy.... Thank you! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Fashionista 0 Posted January 25, 2010 oooooooohhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!! noooooooooo!!!!!!!!!! i wish i could give you a hug!!!!!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Chiaretta 0 Posted January 26, 2010 Thank you Fash! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Fashionista 0 Posted January 26, 2010 i hope you're feeling better now! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Chiaretta 0 Posted January 26, 2010 Yeas, today i'm feeling better than yesterday! I'm try to focus on my studying and not to think about other things! Hope this method works... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Fashionista 0 Posted January 26, 2010 oh! that's great! that really works believe me! i have done it myself! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Chiaretta 0 Posted February 3, 2010 Something good eventually!!Today I received my parcel from Asos and I got 2 marks: 27/30 and 30/30!!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Zoonie 0 Posted February 3, 2010 Yaaaay!Good news indeed. Hopefully you're pleased with your parcel Great marks too - and you know, good things should come in threes, so there's bound to be some more news to come Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Chiaretta 0 Posted February 3, 2010 Thank you Gill! If I could choose what's next I'd pick some health for my daddy! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Zoonie 0 Posted February 3, 2010 I really hope so Chiara Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bunnyfuzzyness 0 Posted February 3, 2010 Hi hun,I am a nurse and want you to know that some bleeding can be normal.I promise you this :)I know that it is scary for you both.I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.wish you the best,Kathy aka Kit & bunnyfuzzyness Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Zoonie 0 Posted February 3, 2010 Added to your rep Kathy, as I think that was really nice of you to take the time to post that info to Chiara Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Chiaretta 0 Posted February 4, 2010 yes, that really was! Thank you Kathy. Unfortunately this time things have gone bad, but i hope next time everything will be fine! and thank you for all your kindness! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
