gracee (lionhgirl)

Hi everyone, I was wondering if you could join me as I pray for my family. We're all coming together for a week, under the same roof & it has the possibility of not going so well - relationship wise. I'm praying for God's love &peace to help draw us closer together instead of further apart. Thankyou so much.

should be working now I think!

haha sisterinchrist I just started a twitter account too! Mostly to annoy my brother, but I might as well give it a chance - Adding you both! :) :)

Ohhh Delightful Soul you have no idea how much I needed to hear this today!! This friend has replied to my letter in anger, basically ripping me to shreds in every possible way with her words.. But I feel like that really confirms that this friendship is, like you say, 'toxic'. Thankyou so much for your kind words, they've really helped me today

Thanks for replying Cholette. Thanks for those verses! "I think you are more hurt by what she has done to you than your decision to walk away from the relationship." Yes that's true.. I think I was naive in thinking we could go our separate ways peacefully and without offense but she is a manipulative kind of person, so looking back I'm not surprised she's reacted this way. It really does feel like a breakup! I guess it is, on a different level. Thanks for the advice and wisdom! Sorry to hear you've had to learn this the hard way.. I hope you've been able to find good, solid Christian friends.. that's what I'm praying for. Thanks again :) God bless.

Hi everyone, I need some advice regarding friendships. I used to be in a friendship of 3 girls, 2 'kind of' christians and one non-christian. Me and the non-christian have been very close friends for years, ever since school. But in the last year, I really felt the pull to move away from them. I felt like they were leaving me out of their friendship and to be honest, I felt like my relationship with them was affecting me and my self esteem. I've slowly pulled away from them - and I did get council from Christians I trust. I tried to explain to her that I still wanted to be her friend and I still love her, but I couldn't see her as often. She never replied. Now she's making things incredibly difficult for me - gossiping about me to my other close Christian friends and playing the guilt trip. I don't want to play the 'he said, she said' game, so I refuse to try and defend myself to my other friends, they can think what they want. But at times I do feel guilty for having left, I know she thinks that I've been ungrateful for the times she's been there for me. I know that I've hurt her and I feel bad... I guess I just don't know what to do about this... Do i just ignore her? or should I be trying to reach out to her? Thanks in advance :)

Thankyou Cholette!!! I took your advice and had a majorly deep conversation with Him hehe :) that was great advice, thankyou!! Daisy thankyou for your prayers! :) I can't tell you how different i feel from when I posted this...Praise God!! Can I ask... When God is calling us to take a step of faith, does he also lead us to that decision or does he sometimes call us to takes steps blindly?

Astra, thankyou so much... What a powerful prayer, I really appreciate it! I had a good time of soaking (and weeping) in worship - praise God I feel alot better! Cloud, for me my friends were extinguishing my fire and that was the reason why I had to distance myself from them. But yes I do feel like God has drawn me away for a period of solitude, it's been hard. But yes I hope it's a time of growth and intimacy with God, instead of people. Thankyou both!! God bless you.

Hello, I need some help. I have no idea what I'm doing. I used to be so on fire for God but I feel like I'm not the same. I've spent the last 6 months battling with relationships and negativity and I thought that was finally finished, I was so strong. and now I feel just so tired and so weak. I'm on holidays and I don't even leave the house. I don't have a church to go to. I had to say goodbye to my closest friends - this was definitely God's guidance. But now I don't have christian friends to turn to. I don't even know what's wrong, I guess I'm discouraged and I don't know what I'm doing this year. I really need God's guidance. If you could send up a prayer for me that would be appreciated :) I really do love everyone on here, you've helped me so much through interpreting some of my dreams. God bless you for what you're doing.