ditte3 0 Posted November 23, 2010 Dear brothers and sistersPeace be with youPlease pray for peace in my family.My husband is very abusive.He has many problems,but he shouldn't behave like this.He yells and fights often.He spoke in a very unfatherly way to our daughter,very rudely.He often does it to us and others.He is probably narcissitic.He is not yet saved.I pray for his salvation.My daughte wants to move to my mother in law because she told her.But it's not right.i mean Ia m her mother and I protected her and protect my children always against himPlease pray for peace and for my daughter not moving.Also for the salvation of my family.Thank you very much.God bless you all. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Delightful soul 0 Posted November 24, 2010 Father, I lift up this family in your name. I pray that your will would be done in the family. I come against abuse of all kinds in Jesus name. I pray for the safety of all involved and ask that you would guide Ditte3 please to know what to do. In Jesus name I pray, Amen. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cholette 0 Posted November 24, 2010 WHy won't you let your daughter move so she can have peace? That's protection.I'll be praying! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hiskid 0 Posted November 25, 2010 I know from experiencebeing verbally abused by a parent has a lasting effect that can affect her future, how she sees herself and even the mate she chooses.Praying you will hear from God about what is best! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ditte3 0 Posted November 25, 2010 Thank you very much for all of you.I trust the Lord that he brings peace.It's better now.I think he is ashamed.But it cannot go on like this.I know only God can change him and give him a new life.I prayed to the Lord that He turn my husband s heart to Him.I think he is sturrling against it.But I trust the Lord.God bless you all. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Delightful soul 0 Posted November 25, 2010 Sometimes being practical is important too.I know of a minister who once was praying over an altar call of people who went down for prayer . One man was presented to him and was told he had a 'problem' with hitting his wife........the minister didn't pray for him but repremanded him and said if he continued, he would give him some "thump therapy"!!!! Now I don't advocate what He said, but it showed me how much good men hate men who beat up women and how even repsectable ministers have dealt with this sort of thing. Emotional abuse is worse in my opinion as the scars are harder to detect.Look, I just hope you take some reasonable precautions to protect yourself and your daughter. I agree with Cholettes post and everyones here. Some practical steps need to be taken in order to be safe, if not for you, for your daughter. Abuse is serious and needs to be treated as such.Bless you truly.. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites