lovelywomanofvirtue 0 Posted July 2, 2010 I have been reading some of the posts about relationships, and it seems like a lot of people are going through the same issues as I am right now. Me and my boyfriend of 3 goin on 4 years recently broke up because of underlying trust issues. Now, he says he can't trust me....and I know i am not perfect, because i did talk on the phone to an ex boyfriend and a good friend without telling him....i went to my good friend's house also without telling him....and he called me a liar and a deciever...when he cheated on me back in october and got the girl pregnant. He already has two kids.....ya'll everything i went through with him would take me a long time to write. But i just say all of that to say this....to all the ladies and even fellas that are going through something similar...keep your head up. Weeping may endure for a night, but joy comes in the morning. Ya'll things are hard for me right now too, and it seems like Satan is taggin my head every way i turn it. But I am holding on to my faith. I will be ordained in September, will graduate from college in December, and I am tryin to focus on those things. Its hard because my finances have been attacked, my health has been attacked, my mind, and my emotions, have been attacked also. But at the end of the day...God's word reigns true...his strength is perfected in our weakness. I am not sure what's goin on, but I am believing that when this season is over, GODLY HUSBANDS and WIVES will come forth, FINANCIAL OVERFLOW, DIVINE HEALTH, MENTAL AND EMOTIONAL STABILITY, and PROSPERITY will come forth. I declare it to be so, in Jesus' name. AMEN! HOLD ON........EVERYTHING's GONNA BE ALRIGHT Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lola21st 2 Posted July 2, 2010 LMOV -I will touch and agree with you! James 1:2-3I'm not even going to start regarding your ex...just keep him as your ex unless the Lord shows you beyond a shadow of a doubt that he is a new man in Christ! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Christina 0 Posted July 3, 2010 Lovely Woman - Wow - you are having your share of challenges right now - I'm praying for you! Ordained and graduating soon? Congrats! I have to agree with you regarding relationships- especially in today's sexually mixed up world it can be difficult finding and maintaining a godly relationship. And there is a lot of temptation out there for Christians as well as non-Christians. Regarding your ex - This isn't a biblical quote but Shakespearian: He doth protest too much! Sounds like his paranoia over your innocent activities is really a symptom of his own guilty conscience? Hang in there - you deserve the Lord's great blessings! My personal experience is it has been so much more peaceful and blessed to be on my own than it was to be in an ungodly, painful relationship. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Dove-Solutions 0 Posted July 4, 2010 Lovely,You are under the attack cuz the evil one does not want you to complete your task (ordination) . The closer we are with the Lord the more attacks we get. I am so proud of you for staying the course. Paul talks about staying the course and running the race and fighting the good fight of faith....you are doing just that. I will keep you in my prayers. Love in Jesus,Connie Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lovelywomanofvirtue 0 Posted July 5, 2010 Thank you all for your words of encouragment. Four years ago, I would never have thought that I would be getting ordained....God is something else! But yeah... @Lola....A-TO-THE-MEN! I am really trying to focus. @ Christina- you are so right, and I was the one sitting here feeling all down, and stupid, and messed up.....Its like the BIble says, the pure sees pure and the defiled sees defiled (paraphrased, but you know what I am saying) @ Dove- I truly believe that....I am a bit nervous to see how things are gonna go after the ordination. IF they are so bad before, man......Hep' me Jesus! LOl...on a serious note though, I agree with what you are saying. I love all of you thanks! I've had some hard days, but God is faithful. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Dove-Solutions 0 Posted July 5, 2010 And the beauty is He will continue to be faithful. Lord we plead the blood of Jesus over our sister and bless her with many fruitful days as a minister for you. We break off in Jesus name any attacks from the enemy and claim them all broken and of no affect. We surround her with the Love of Jesus and give her his peace. We bless her with peace, joy, love, kindness, goodness, gentleness, patience, self control and faithfulness. We bless her with all of the Lords blessing. May the Lord shine his face upon you and smile at what he sees. May he bless you for being a blessing to others. Know your family here loves you,Connie Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lovelywomanofvirtue 0 Posted July 5, 2010 AWWWW...I appreciated the prayer Connie! I recieve it in Jesus' name! AMEN Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
daphanie02 0 Posted August 13, 2010 WOW what a way to stand strong in the mist of the storm! your faith has blessed me! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lovelywomanofvirtue 0 Posted August 16, 2010 Well Praise GOd! Chile, it has been sooooooooo hard, but I thank God for encouraging words, and for taking the scales off of my eyes. He is awesome! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
