unaday* 1 Posted July 22, 2010 There is a girl that works with me and she is getting to me more and more over the last 3 years. To rate her negativity, rudeness, difficulty, anger, destruction- would go off the charts. She sits beside me but affects me and the rest of the office. Sometimes i am drained before the work day even begins. I have prayed to God to help me be a light to her. Being a light to her means that i try to show her the best way or decision but I annoy her because I don't entertain her ways- so some days she doesn't even talk to me but the environment is still poisoned. Please pray that God takes care of this situation. I don't want her to lose her job because I know how hard it is out there ...but my prayer is that God removes her out of here...maybe into some place that is better suited for her. I don't know. But please touch and agree with me! In Jesus' name! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nyagali 0 Posted July 22, 2010 This is interesting because I just had coffee with one of my best friends and I asked her how her day went. She must work with your twin!! Just as you, she sees this person with compassion but she also said it is a draining day by the end when there is no response but hostility. My heart goes out to you sister. How much some people need Jesus, they don't see how their lives affect all those around them. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Angelwings 1 Posted July 23, 2010 Oh boy, do I know that situation so well. Your in my prayers Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Dove-Solutions 0 Posted July 24, 2010 All to well I understand......I was in an office with 5 other woman. Oh my is all I can say. There was one woman that I was friends with but she was so difficult and agumentative......to the point that I could barely stand it some days. One day the Lord told me that just because she thought she knew more of the situation did not mean that was the truth and I should trust him to show me that truth. As it turned out I ended up leaving that department and eventually the Lord had me leave the company. In my life I have never met anyone quite so determined to be right and have the last word as I did there. I did everything I could to honor God but it was very tough. I hung in 7 years. After that I couldn't take it anymore. Hang in girl. We are praying for you.Love in Jesus,Connie Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Angelwings 1 Posted July 24, 2010 I did everything I could to honor God but it was very tough. I hung in 7 years. After that I couldn't take it anymore. Don't mean to get off the subject a little bit but I'm where you were with your passed job. It's going on 7 years at my job and it's so hard....I struggle every morning to put myself in that place. It's hard for me to even put a smile on my face because I'm constantly going into battle. I totally understand Unaday. There is a woman at my job that is manipulative, controlling, LOVES to play mind games with people to get her way, just not a very nice person. and it is so hard because both our jobs are related and I HAVE to deal with her sometimes. I've had to pray those aggressive prayers of asking God to remove her. BUT SHE"S NOT MOVING!! LOL I'm praying for you Unaday! I recently put up a prayer request because if the situation at my job doesn't change than I pray that God will free me from it and open other doors. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
