future husband prayer

[meg2011 0]

I started being shown Sept 2011 who God had promised would be my husband. It is someone that I have known for years. God has continued to show me that this is the family (he's divorced with a daughter) intends for me to marry. Right now we are on hold. I am waiting for God to do the final push to open his heart to come back to church. In the meantime I have been made aware that he is now seeing someone else. Has been for several months now. As you can imagine this is difficult for me since God has already given me a love for him. Knowing the promise does make it easier but the pain is still there. Since finding out I have been holding onto the fact that All things work together for my good. AMEN!!

I have been praying that God would guard my heart to not allow doubt to creep in and just as important that God will soften this guy's heart to allow him to start hearing from God again. (he left church after his divorce) Please keep us in your prayers.


P.S. I do believe God is working behind the scenes on this. There are other things going on with him too that I have been praying for. I work for the county and he was approached (and agreed) to run for County Board. I prayed that he would make the right decision. Since then alot of stink has transpired. He is also our IT person for the county and also assist in the elections. For obvious reasons he won't be allowed to work the election this year because of this. That's just part of the problem. On 5/15 I prayed that if we are going to eventually be together that if there would be a conflict down the road that it would be made clear to him and doors would close if they are suppose to be closed. He has till June 4th to file the papers. On 5/16 we found out that a lady whose husband works at the same IT place we contract with is running for another office. So there is yet another conflict of interest. On 5/17- A group of people yet again created a stink saying that he can't run for board because of his connection with the county. (I see their point--but the backstabbing him was uncalled for). I prayed once again that if they are creating this much stink about this what would they do if he was on County Board and I worked for County. Once again praying that God's Will will be done. I personally this entire time have felt that he shouldn't be running for Board. Now it's just to see what God wants. 5/17 is also when I found out about this other releationship. Talk about Satan pulling out all of the stops. Got news for him though. I'm onto you. I had this reminded to me today and I hope it will also help someone else here as well.

"Distractions from Satan- Satan sends natuarl occurences to frustrate you spirtually to get you to abort your spiritual destiny. The minute God is about to do something. A demon manifests and stands in front of that word spoken over your life and that demon will manifest natural occurences to frustrate you to get you off of your focus so that what God spoke won't come to pass. Accusations and critisims are the final stage before spiritual promotion. You can always tell how blessed you are going to be tomorrow by how much Hell you are going through now" Talk about a word that I needed to be reminded of today.

[Cholette 0]

Praying God's perfect will in this situation.

[meg2011 0]

Thank you for your prayers. I am standing by that what God has declared it shall come to pass. Can't wait to give you all a testimony.

[lola21st 2]

hi meg2011 -

I was in a similar situation and what I can offer is the same that Cholette offered. Pray God's perfect will into the situation and pray that He would direct your steps. Also take heed to Psalm 46:10 and let Him to any work that He means to be done, don't try to "help" Him in this situation. Only take action if you are hearing it loud and clear in your Spirit and you have received several confirmations that it is the appropriate action to take. This is one situation in which it's ok to be a Gideon...

The last thing I'll add is that while it's true that Satan will try to add confusion right before a blessing, God is still God. When God opens a door, Satan can't stop it. I say that to say that the quote that you included is true on one level but somewhat flawed on another level. When a situation is of God, things roll into place in such a perfect way that God has to be glorified because it could only have occurred through Him. God is not going to create a situation that causes further confusion, especially when you're seeking Him for His will and direction on a matter. I hope that I don't come across harsh, it's just that I've seen many Christian friends get tripped up over this.

For example, I have a friend who went through something similar to you regarding a potential mate and while he should've seen the confusion and spiritual attacks as signs that what he was praying about wasn't God's will for him, he drew a similar conclusion and thought that the enemy was trying to thwart God's plans...well, that couldn't have been further from the truth. He got tangled up in a huge mess that has taken years to recover from and only in the last year or so has his life returned to some level of normalcy. I don't want anyone else to have to endure that type of trouble so I caution you to tread lightly. If you see a situation that appears to be the devil thwarting God's plan, then please use your spirit of discernment and don't take action until you see clearly that God has thwarted the devil's plan.

[meg2011 0]

Lola- no problem. I welcome your input. No worries. I can guarantee I will not be saying anything to him. It wouldn't do any good since I know he is not ready to hear it and it would most likely hurt the process. Waiting of God! I will, however, keep praying for God's Will to be done.

The reason I know God is now dealing with him is because I have seen in dreams where there have been storms over his house and this latest storm dream involved hail. I know hail in the scripture always involves judgement and correction of some kind. The dream I had this week said that I have to wait the process. Once God says something it shall come to pass no man, devil, etc can stop it.

[princessdelia 0]

Meg, be encouraged. Your faith will be credited to you as righteousness. Keep yourself grounded in Christ and continue to hold onto to Him. When He perfects all that concerns you in this situation, it will be beautiful!!!

[meg2011 0]

Thanks everyone!!!

princessdelia- I agree with you. In fact that's what I've been praying too. I believe these storms he is in is bringing him to were he needs to be for complete repentance. I'll share this part of the dream with you because your comment it will be beautiful kind of reminded me of it. This guy was a Marine in RL. In the dream my Uncle Randy was putting mulch down by his poppies and someone else said that will make them sugar. When I woke up I really wondered what does that mean?

This is what I found interesting. The bright scarlet colour signifies a promise of resurrection after death. and then of course this "The poppy of wartime remembrance is Papaver rhoeas, the red-flowered corn poppy. This poppy is a common weed in Europe and is found in many locations, including Flanders, the setting of the famous poem "In Flanders Fields," by the Canadian surgeon and soldier John McCrae. In Canada, the United Kingdom, Australia, South Africa and New Zealand, artificial poppies (plastic in Canada, paper in the UK, Australia, South Africa and New Zealand) are worn to commemorate those who died in war. This form of commemoration is associated with Remembrance Day, which falls on November 11. In Canada, Australia and the UK, poppies are often worn from the beginning of November through to the 11th, or Remembrance Sunday if that falls on a later date (November 13 in 2011). In New Zealand and Australia, soldiers are commemorated on ANZAC day (April 25),[3] although the poppy is still commonly worn around Remembrance Day. Wearing of poppies was once a custom in the United States as well, and attempts have been made to revive the tradition in the US in connection with Memorial Day (end of May)."

I use mulch to protect my plants from the elements and provide needed moisture. Them saying that will make them sugar made me think that when this is over the desired result - repentance will be sweet.

[princessdelia 0]

wow, confirmation..... God bless u