I'm really sorry for being quiet more then usual...

[Guest Guest]

My father has some medical problems, he went to Belgrade today to have his brain X-rayed, because the doctor suspects that the cause is the tumor. He had maaany headaches in the past days and he's always dizzy. Today however, the doctor was really busy and she put off the X-ray for his brain at 25th of August. We are all sad, and believe it or not, my mom and me are crying right now.

My dad and my moms sister are in Belgrade now and trying to find a private doctor for his head, and hopefully do the X-ray today. I really can't describe how do I feel now, except that my hands are shaking while I am typing this.

My dad have always been there for me, always supported me, and encouraged me for my decisions in my life. I don't know what to do. My mom drank some medicine because she had a temperature from her sorrow and I am beginning to feel the same way.

[lea75 0]

Oh sweetheart!

My heart totally goes out to you, this must be horrendous for all of you. I cannot believe they have put the x-ray off until August, that is terrible!

Try and stay stong hun, for your Mum, you know you have all of us to lean on and talk to when ever you need us

Huge hugs and lots of love and positive thoughts being sent your way

[Guest Guest]

Thank you Lisa so much! I also talked to skype with my sister, and a couple of minutes ago I've passed the news to her (she lives in Wien). She also began to cry.

I gave my dad a ring 10 minutes ago and he said that he's searching for a private doctor to take a look at his head. I really don't wanna think and really don't think that it's a T word ... This never happened before in our family and we are all so depressed right now.

My dads parents don't know this yet, and we are afraid to tell them because they are pretty old and they are really sensitive about their son. Our family never had any medical problems ...

[Ursula1 0]

Lazar

You shouldn't be alone now, because you're sad. Try to distract you with something with us. If you need a hug, ask for it

[Guest Guest]

Thank you Ursula so much. The reason we're all sad is because the last medical problem in our family happened 6 yrs ago when my aunts husband passed away from head trauma.

We are all trying to stay positive and trying to hold our fingers crossed for him. We just hope that he will be ok.

[bunnyfuzzyness 0]

I am so sorry ,Lazar.I know how you feel right now.They haven't given us all the medical tests on my mother's brain and to hear her talk so insane is ripping me apart.When you want answers and doctors that we should be able to trust delay that,it is horrible.We want answers NOW.Especially when it is our parent.

I pray that it is nothing serious.There are several things that may be causing headaches that are not serious and even if it is a tumor,may be something simple and easily correctable.

Please do not think for the worse, darling.Breaks my heart to know you're hurting.You're a wonderful young man and friend.Your family is in my prayers

huge hugs
Kathy

[tweets 0]

i know the feeling...

my fingers are crossed for your dad!
i'm sure he'll be okay!! just stay positive!!


you know we're always here for you

[kasijab 0]

As everyone else says Laz please try and stay positive through this difficult time ....I cannot begin to imagine what you are going through, but I am here for you at any time. If you want to rant and get things off your chest then just pm me as you have in the past.
Please keep us informed ...and don't forget to give your mum a big hug, she probably needs it at the moment too

[Tiddly Winks 0]

So sorry to read this, I am putting my words in with the others, try and stay strong. I know it's hard, because I know how it feels to want to scream my head off when I am worried. I will keep your dad, your mum and your family in my prayers.

If you need us we're all here for you. And like someone else said, you should not be alone. Keep us posted on how he's doing.

[Guest Guest]

Thank you all soooo much!

My dad had returned from Belgrade 2 hours ago, he is feeling ok. The good news are here. Well, mostly good news.

We've found a private doctor!

Yay for us. Tomorrow he will be heading to Belgrade again, around 8.00 am. I am keeping my fingers crossed for my dad, and I really want to say a big thank you for all of your support.

I will fill you in tomorrow with the news, hopefully good ones ...

[Agne 0]

Oh Lazar! That must be really serious... I'm soo sorry for you and your father! That is terrible... I woudn't wish that for nobody... And calm your mom, cuz that looks so hard for her! And you, you just need some sleep and a huge hug, because yes, YOU'VE FOUND A DOCTOR!!!!!!!!
I can hug you I'm with tweet! My fingers are crossed too! Hope the news will be good!

[Guest Guest]

Aww thank you agne so much. Your message means a lot to me ...

[lea75 0]

So glad to hear you have managed to find a private doctor.

I will keep my fingers crossed for him tomorrow hun. Let us know how your Dad gets on xx

[Guest Guest]

He is having some sleepy time right now. It's 9.56 pm here and he is surely tired. I just hope that the *T word* will be negative.

Thank you everyone so much, I've showed this thread to my dad, and he is blessed! This proves that psfc is the greatest place to be!

[hinapasha 0]

I'm really sorry to hear about your dad... But I'm also glad you managed to find a private doctor. That must be some relief. Please stay positive because positive thinking affects everything! Stay strong dear!

[bunnyfuzzyness 0]

YAY for a private doctor!!!!

Wishing you and your family the best and keeping you all in my prayers

[SashaGirl 0]

I know how hard it is to be so worried about someone. It's great that you've found a private doctor, and I hope your dad gets good news from him. Make sure you take care of yourself, and encourage your mom and dad to take care of themselves, too. That is very important when you are going through something like this!

It sounds like you have a lot of good friends on this forum. Do pm them if you need someone to talk to - I can tell they really care about you. And that's all part of taking care of yourself, letting your friends be there for you.

[Guest Guest]

hinapasha wrote:

I'm really sorry to hear about your dad... But I'm also glad you managed to find a private doctor. That must be some relief. Please stay positive because positive thinking affects everything! Stay strong dear!

Thank you so much for your support!!!

bunnyfuzzyness wrote:

YAY for a private doctor!!!!

Wishing you and your family the best and keeping you all in my prayers

Kathy I wish you the best as well! Thank you for yet again proving that you are one of my sweetest friends that I will never forget.

SashaGirl wrote:

I know how hard it is to be so worried about someone. It's great that you've found a private doctor, and I hope your dad gets good news from him. Make sure you take care of yourself, and encourage your mom and dad to take care of themselves, too. That is very important when you are going through something like this!

It sounds like you have a lot of good friends on this forum. Do pm them if you need someone to talk to - I can tell they really care about you. And that's all part of taking care of yourself, letting your friends be there for you.

Thank you so much for your message! My mom is feeling quite better, she's gone to work. My dad is gone to Belgrade, I am strongly keeping my fingers crossed for him and I really hope that there's nothing serious about his health.

My dad is almost deaf on one ear, the reason is, as doctor said, sleeping on one side of the bed, and rarely on another. The lymph can be really hard to find in his left ear, and that's why we always have to talk to him more loudly. Also he has problems with his middle ear.

So I must also suspect that the reason is the middle ear. He must have headaches because of his middle ear... When he was in Wien, he got his first attack, I don't know where he was, but he told me that he became dizzy, and that the world was upside down for him. Then there was a hugh possibility for him to faint.

And he told me that the first thing he thought then was me, how will my life go on without him. He was crying when he said that to me, and my mom was here.

Ok guys, I need to wash my face, I am crying at the moment...

[Guest Guest]

Ok, here are the most greatest news of all...
I was away for the whole morning, playing in the musical school orchestra, and while I was playing, my cell phone rang. The violins were playing loud so I just ran into the hall and answered the phone. It was my dad.

I was sweating. He told me that he went to the private doctor and had his head examined. The doctor told him that he had much saliva in his nose and that the saliva formed some sort of noodle which pressured the brain and caused many headaches.

The doctor gave my dad a bottle of salt water, and told him to put that water in his nose 3 times per day. After breakfast - after lunch - after dinner. The doctor also said that nothing was wrong and that there's nothing to worry about.

I am sincerely screaming out of happiness. Knowing that my dad doesn't have a subtenant in his brain, which one of the doctors suspected. I am blessed, and so is my mom. She is crying out of happiness right now, at her work.

All I have to say for you guys is a BIG, BIGGER, HUGE thank you for showing all of your support to my dad. I am so happy to announce that nothing is wrong and that our medical problems will come back to normal.

I am speechless! I don't know what to do to show you how much I care for all of you guys, thank you so much for showing all support to my father!

[Tiddly Winks 0]

Wow, Lazar, that is just absolutely fantastic news. I am in orbit for you.

Truly, between the news you and Kathy gave, I am ready to open a bottle of champagne and make a special dinner.

You so deserve to have some good news.

[Guest Guest]

Thank you Yvette so much. I am still shocked of everything I've been trough for my dad, and now that there's nothing to worry about, I am totally screaming!

I've also passed the news to my sister trough Skype, she told me that those are wonderful news and that she is jumping out of joy, she is also laughing of happiness. We are all happy for our dad

[Foxpoly 0]

i'm so happy for your Dad

[Guest Guest]

Thank you Pollina so much

[kasijab 0]

So please to hear your good news sweetheart ... Your dad just needs to rest up now and get better, which you know he will do.

Yvette, you cook the dinner, I'll bring a couple of bottles of iced champagne ...any more offers for our cyber feast in celebration

[Agne 0]

Oh my! The news are greater than the greatest! I'm soo happy for you and your family!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Guest Guest]

kasijab wrote:

So please to hear your good news sweetheart ... Your dad just needs to rest up now and get better, which you know he will do.

Yvette, you cook the dinner, I'll bring a couple of bottles of iced champagne ...any more offers for our cyber feast in celebration

I'm offering some salt and pepper Thank you so muuuuchhhhh

agniukas wrote:

Oh my! The news are greater than the greatest! I'm soo happy for you and your family!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thank you so much for showing support! PSFC is surely the greatest place to be

[hinapasha 0]

Very happy to hear the good news about your dad Sounds like you and your family need a nice rest after everything you went through.

[Guest Guest]

Thank you hina so much!
My mom is going to Wien in 8 days, and my dad is going to Crna Gora (a state next to ours) to the beach for many salt water!

[Agne 0]

That is a real Summer dream! I can't say how happy I am for your father!

[Ursula1 0]

Lazar, what wonderful news!!!!

We should make a Happy News Week or something like that to celebrate it, with parties in all houses, so you will spend all week feeling even better

[Guest Guest]

agniukas wrote:

That is a real Summer dream! I can't say how happy I am for your father!

Ursula Reis wrote:

Lazar, what wonderful news!!!!

We should make a Happy News Week or something like that to celebrate it, with parties in all houses, so you will spend all week feeling even better

Thank you both so much! My dad is returning from Belgrade, he's entering our town as we speak. My mom went to pick him up, because he's coming with a train.

[Fashionista 0]

aw!!!!!! Laz i'm so sorry!!!!!!! i wasn't aware of that because i had so much stuff to do and didn't log in for long this week!!!!! omg! this is horrible!!!!! i wish you all the best and that good news will come! don't worry sweety stay optimistic!

[Guest Guest]

Fashionista wrote:

aw!!!!!! Laz i'm so sorry!!!!!!! i wasn't aware of that because i had so much stuff to do and didn't log in for long this week!!!!! omg! this is horrible!!!!! i wish you all the best and that good news will come! don't worry sweety stay optimistic!

Aww thank you fash, the good news are already here, check previous pages

[chay 0]

all the best for you and ur family laz! i hope everything will come out fine , just pray and nothing is impossible...prayers can move mountains

[Guest Guest]

chay wrote:

all the best for you and ur family laz! i hope everything will come out fine , just pray and nothing is impossible...prayers can move mountains

I love you to pieces! Thank you
Everything turned out great, I am so glad, go to the previous page and check

[chay 0]

aww..im very happy for this good news laz!!! to God be the glory!!

[Guest Guest]

As I stated, I love you to pieces

[myladyyawo 0]

awww Lazar, thats so wonderful that it was nothing terribly serious with your Dad. I can only imagine the worry that you and your family must have been going through. Huge hugs that everything turned out okay!!

[Guest Guest]

Thank you Sara so much! I also wish you everything best and your angel as well!

[Fashionista 0]

aaaw!!!!!!!!!! Laz!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm soooooo happy that your Dad It's Ok and was not that they were exepecting!!!! wish you all the best!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and may you never have to getthrought this again and noone! huge hugs!

[Guest Guest]

Thnk you so muuuuuuch

[smorkle 0]

yikes! i've been at work so i missed your post. i'm REALLY glad to hear that everything turned out okay with your dad. what a scare!!!

[Guest Guest]

smorkle wrote:

yikes! i've been at work so i missed your post. i'm REALLY glad to hear that everything turned out okay with your dad. what a scare!!!

Awww jeanie I really appreciate this post! You once again proved that you are one of my biggest and closest to my heart friends!

[sinenomine 0]

I dont know why I missed this post too
I suffer from migraine and sometimes pains is so hard that I think I may have a tumor or something
I am very happy that you dad is ok now
I think that what you explained is called here "sinusitis" dont know the name in english
And it can be controlled with medications
Anyway I am glad
You are an incredible kid, yur parents mos be very proud of you

[Guest Guest]

Thank you Rocio so much! My parents are blessed with this thread and all PSFC member who posted here. PSFC is truly, and most surely the greatest place to be. I don't know if there are more honest and true friends then you guys