MarieJuliette 0 Posted September 29, 2009 I'm a member of the local diecast club in Montreal. We only have one meeting per month so every 1st friday of the month is always very exciting for the kids and I. Plus the boys have been really working hard around the house with chores to get more money to spend.But last night I went to pick up my oldest from school and one caretaker said that he was really not a good boy and he was goofing a lot, to the point the school is considering expulsing him from the afterschool program....... Well, he got an earful last night! And among one of the punishments (yes there's more than one!), is that we are NOT going to the club meeting this friday. Let me tell you that this hurt more than any other of the punishments!!! What about all the work I been doing and the money I earned? he kept asking. I told him that the money was still his but he won't be spending it this month...... I'm hoping he got the message loud and clear that he shouldn't be goofing around. Yes he can have fun, but sometimes he needs to listen up....Now, if any of you goof too much around here, you'll have the same punishment..... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pydrumerboy 0 Posted September 29, 2009 Well, you're a great mum by showing him whats more important in life. Great mum....!!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sinclair 0 Posted September 30, 2009 You did the right thing, MJ. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
chee keng hong 0 Posted September 30, 2009 "Bad Mom"....but with the right punishment!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
demonicle2 0 Posted September 30, 2009 man... lucky i dun have u guys as parents... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Fadli85 0 Posted September 30, 2009 No, you're not a bad mom, you're teaching a lesson...! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MarieJuliette 0 Posted September 30, 2009 I know I'm not a bad mom! I said that through my son's eyes!! LOL For him, I was the worse! But it did work out good because he was a good boy yesterday and it's looking like he got the lesson. We're still NOT going to the club meeting but at least he knows what I can do to punish him. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jhc7598 0 Posted September 30, 2009 that's the right things to do, mum!!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Adrian1 0 Posted September 30, 2009 Ya,u do the right thing. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pydrumerboy 0 Posted September 30, 2009 demonicle2 wrote:man... lucky i dun have u guys as parents... I foresee this one turning ito a Bad Dad!!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jhc7598 0 Posted September 30, 2009 pydrumerboy wrote:demonicle2 wrote:man... lucky i dun have u guys as parents... I foresee this one turning ito a Bad Dad!!! AGREE!!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Fadli85 0 Posted September 30, 2009 What did he do goofing around? I thought all boys do that? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
netmatrix 0 Posted September 30, 2009 Well at least you are stern about that! Here in Malaysia, there is so little spanking and a lot of shouting. And even then the kids have all the leverage over their parents. Maybe i should take videos of them naughty kids from the times i always see in shopping malls. hahahah. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MarieJuliette 0 Posted September 30, 2009 Fadli85 wrote:What did he do goofing around? I thought all boys do that? Yes he did that and I don't mind when he's at home or during play time. But not at school. The caregiver wanted some calm and quiet to tell the kids to take their ranks in order to go to their classes and he wasn't listening. That is not proper. As for spanking, well I have to admit that I've done that BUT when it doesn't hurt anymore, the kids couldn't care less about it. I firmly believe that you have to get them where it hurt the most!!! In this case, not going to the club meeting. He was also prevented from watching TV. Another tough one for him. Plus, with all the child welfare laws around, if I get reported about spanking my kids, I'm really in trouble!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sinclair 0 Posted September 30, 2009 netmatrix wrote:Well at least you are stern about that! Here in Malaysia, there is so little spanking and a lot of shouting. And even then the kids have all the leverage over their parents. Maybe i should take videos of them naughty kids from the times i always see in shopping malls. hahahah. If I'm not mistaken, spanking has been outlawed in most western countries and in Australia. The kids can report you if you lay your hands on them. Whereas here we can still smack, toss them about and shake some sense into them. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kurz 0 Posted September 30, 2009 ^ hmmm u reminded me of something Quote :child : i'll phone child services if u hit me! dad : is that riiight~ uuuu...brrrr...scary~well let me get u the phone tough guy! child : *panics* what r u doing?? if i phone child services, u might get in trouble! dad : well~ i might get a lil bit of trouble..but i know its going to take them TWENTY-TWO minutes to get here. in that time~ SOMEBODY GONNA GET A HURT REAAAALL BAAADD~!!! so mdm MJ, spank them!!! but about not going to the gathering, wont the mom be sad too?u'll miss the chance to get nice hauls..hehei say u go alone n leave him jealous n regret of what he did Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MarieJuliette 0 Posted October 1, 2009 kurz wrote: but about not going to the gathering, wont the mom be sad too?u'll miss the chance to get nice hauls..hehe Yes and no.....Because it's the start of the school year and because I need to buy some new snow boots and outfits, money's been real tight!!! LOL That way I will have enough to get the snow gear for the winter!! Coming soon in all Canadian backyards!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Adrian1 0 Posted October 1, 2009 Cool..i want feel the COLD.... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
chee keng hong 0 Posted October 1, 2009 Wow..Love the Snow!! Let it snow...let it snow...let it snow!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sinclair 0 Posted October 1, 2009 Adrian wrote:Cool..i want feel the COLD.... Are you SURE? I don't think it's fun. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jhc7598 0 Posted October 2, 2009 just seeing those snow makes me cold already.. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kurz 0 Posted October 2, 2009 spring's kind of cold is nice but surely not winter! something we in equatorial climate should be glad of..huhu Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Fadli85 0 Posted October 2, 2009 EDIT : Profanity LOL...! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MarieJuliette 0 Posted October 3, 2009 That pic's from a few years ago. I'll take new one when the 1st snow arrives. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kukubeh 0 Posted October 3, 2009 netmatrix wrote:Well at least you are stern about that! Here in Malaysia, there is so little spanking and a lot of shouting. And even then the kids have all the leverage over their grandparents. Maybe i should take videos of them naughty kids from the times i always see in shopping malls. hahahah. corrected. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pydrumerboy 0 Posted October 3, 2009 I totally agree with kuku.... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MarieJuliette 0 Posted October 3, 2009 Same here with the Grandparents!!! But if I say something, both my parents and my in-laws abide by what I say. In this case, all were ok with the punishment!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
