Nadira

I'm facing a snag in this forum recently. My PMs fail to be delivered. I'd sent my last PM today, not one but three, and all of them are piled up at the "outbox" folder. Why's this occurring? Can anybody help? Thanks.

Hello friends.. :d

Soap Opera. Satin or Silk?

HAPPY BIRTHDAY PSFC...!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Its extremely sad.....such a waste of a young life. I didn't listen her much...but still I felt really bad when I saw the news. RIP Winehouse.

Yes...I've felt it personally, LOTS of times! Usually that feeling comes out of prolonged periods of self-pity or brooding.

Hello smorkle...I'm awfully sorry for the delay, my Internet had gone kaput, actually. Thanks you and Agne for replying, it's much more appreciated than you could imagine. Yup, I'm battling this daily almost, and I'm constantly trying to divert my thoughts, but then again yesterday, I saw him and couldn't help hanging around his office like a fool. You're right, it's foolish and pointless. Btw, I cannot tell my friends anything; this particular guy is MUCH despised in our class for his partial grading; in fact, we had submitted long list of written complaints against him in our previous semester and that had snowballed into a nasty thing. Everyone is relieved that he's no longer in our class, so my saying anything of the sort would mean that I'm trying to....you know....prepare to suck up or something. PS: He's 40 year old.

I'm from India. You? I mean you live in SA, but you seem to be South Asian. Am I correct?

Hi sara, yeah I hope to have fun here too!

Hello Katrina, I'm a newbie myself, just joined a day ago. *hug*

Hello Salwa, and thanks for the warm words.......I know what you mean. I've been doing EXACTLY what you say---trying to squeeze out all thoughts of him by engaging in other activities. When I'm engaged in other work, I don't get these thoughts that much, but in college, the feeling seizes me, sort of. I cannot help keeping an eye an out for him, or googlign him whenever I have free time. I always stop to stand and stare at him in the campus, and many a times I get the urge to follow him. Yeahh...sounds creepy. LOL. Laughter apart, I know I wouldn't act knowingly on any of impulses, nor do I expect him to really "return" the feelings or whatever. But the main question is-----why do I feel this way? And especially for smeone who isn't even a "nice" guy. Gettit? And thanks a LOT for replying.

Hello and thank you everyone!

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Im damn bored...its raining like crazy and I'm sitting tight imposed in front of my computer screen. Let's start a chat...where are you all from and how did you find PSFC?

Gross....how did you get to collect and snap that thingy! Ewwww..i wouldnta dared to!

Let's have a discussion on birthdays.People come forward and tell your birthdays! Mine's on the 10th Aug!

WOW!!! Congrats, Jenifer!

Hello smorkle, nice to meet you. Well I was just surfing about in search of one of those "Agony Aunt" forums when I stumbled across this. And then I registered and found out that it was much more than just that, really. LOL. I really hope it's going to be fun to be a part of you. And thanks for welcoming!

Hello honey, I feel deeply for your situation. I'm not a mother or not even married, but i can fathom the exact fatigue that can stem from striving for something endlessly without any result in sight. All I can say that if the doc said there's nothing medically wrong with either you or your hubby, then you're going to have kids. Maybe you already are aware of this, but still I'd suggest you try again when you're "right that time" in your menstrual cycle. Cheers and keep hopes high!

Hello buddies...am a newbie here. Myself Anaida, you?

I find myself in an intensely uncomfortable and frustrating situation where I have an obsessive infatuation with a professor at college. He's extremely intelligent, passionate and noted in his field, but a somewhat obnoxious and arrogant person.He's resented by most in out class----but I seem to harbour a soft corner for him which is gradually turning into obsession. I Google up stuff about him on the net, read up everything he's written, loiter around his office just to catch a glimpse of him, and constantly fantasize about him and myself. When in reality, he's not even close to knowing me that well. And this year----we haven't got any classes of him, and this is getting me frustrated to the point of getting edgy. I know that this could be dangerous and lead to nowhere, but I can't stop this intense, oppressive feeling of wanting to throw myself at him. I keep dreaming up things to ask him or ways to just "bump" into him. I am even planning to take up his paper in next year, although I know that it doesn't interest me. I feel, on the whole, disturbed and dejected. I even feel that I'm developing stalkerish tendencies. Please suggest me how to tackle this. I'm starting to hate myself for this even.