well i kno ppl who hav strong personalitys, they r ppl who lead ,pioneer, who r tuff ,, but they dont control.or manipulate or opress, they do wat ther supoosed 2 do,,u dont feel bad around them cos ther not climbing ova u 2 get sumwer, ,,tru leaders inspire,, ,,conversely ppl ive knowen irl wer i live wiv jeze spirit often hav rejection issues,, want u asa pawn in ther lives,, opress u,, manipulate an control in any area,, i hadda bad pasta, nearly destroyed mi life, it was the werst,, this is a very breif reply swty,