Daisy

I ususally don't like to post here in moderation for my own personal help, but I would really appreciate any input any of you have on this dream. I feel like feedback on this one from the pros would be amazing!!! Please don't hold back if you pick up an anything I am missing. Lots of craziness on my end...Lots of changes and things coming up, so IM dreaming a TON!! Hope all of you are doing well. 😘 /t21756-self-care-self-worth#112692

Hi all!! Ok honestly, I haven't been dreaming very much lately until just recently. I started cutting back my caffeine consumption slowly so that I can do a detox for my liver. Right now, I am on half caffeine that I am usually used to. I am seeing how much better I feel, and how less anxious I am while not drinking as much caffeine. Im going to continue to cut back until Im off of it all together for the detox. Im sleeping SO much better! I didn't even realize that I wasn't getting as great of quality of sleep! Anyways, I feel like I am dreaming MUCH MUCH more!!! Have any of you noticed this link with over caffinating vs. not dreaming as often??? Just wondering if Im alone in this discovery? Once my detox is over, Im convinced that decaf will be the way to go for me, if I need that coffee taste in the future. Also, check out my latest post when you guys get a chance! Im kind of blown away still about how the timing of this manifested so quickly-the same day!! Im praising God for protecting my niece, and that my sister took heed!! Hope you all are doing great!!!!

Thx D!!!

Guess I gotta leave the link...lol. Im tired. /t19525-my-daughter-had-a-reoccurring-dream-of-a-bad-guy-with-red-hair

Will you guys mind taking a look at this one for me please? It just seems kind of wierd to me that my daugher keep dreaming of this man. Want your honest opinions.

Ok, my thoughts are a similar but a little different. I think that you could very well be spot on Mark. Keep in mind, Im a little out of practice bc I haven't been here much. Instead of a spiritual influence, Im wondering if this could be about possible food allergies or sensitivities of her son? Sometimes food sensitivities can effect our kids' behavior. The dyes in many of the processed foods now days, have been known to cause attention disorders, or hyper activity in kids. She seemed like she was going to discipline the child, until she noticed something that could have been causing the behavior. The fact that there wasn't any blood, seems like it was a good thing to me. An easy fix, no permanent damage. I think this dream could be to just bring something to her attention, for her to take a closer look at something she didn't notice before. It seemed painless, and she was able to quickly remove these things from his side. Perhaps if she is struggling with his behavior, or does in the future, perhaps all she would need to do is to remove few things removed from his diet. I could be out in left field with the food sensitivities though....just what came to mind when I read the dream. Maybe Im leaning this way because the theme was this happened after they had dinner. Let me know your thoughts after reading my response. =)

Hi All!! This was Glads response to me....I feel much better, like I have spoken what was on my heart. Hi Daisy, thank you so much for your message, I can sense how much heartfelt this is. I appreciate the time and effort you put into emailing me, it really spoke to my heart, especially that you would care enough to address me. I am even more thankful for your prayers. You are right when it comes to me not taking action, but I have clung to this for years, that when the time comes for me to go, that God would speak loud and clear to me, because I need to know that I know that I know, today is the day. I believe change is very close upon me, not sure which way, but I do believe something is going to happen in the near future. I am not sure what, but whatever it is, it will bring change. I fully agree with what you sense and I thank you for sharing it with me. The thing with the time is, that I recently received a word from someone I fully trust, that God was asking me to wait just a little while longer, if I could ... for by me staying something was going to break that had to break first - and I fully agree and have witness with that. My husband, who is baptized and a tongue speaking Christian, is bound and has been bound for years by a very strong demonic presence that absolutely hates God in me. I have been addressed as Satan and told to leave (in Jesus Name). Every time he loses it he attacks God in me. He is two persons in one and the rest of the world, except some that have experienced it themselves, everyone thinks he is the sweetest guy around. I don't know what has cost me more tears, what he did or didn't do to and for us, or that no one wanted to believe me, no matter what I said or my kids, for that matter. I still have only a few people that believe me, but those people are important to me, the rest is not. But than again, when I see my husband with other people I hardly believe it myself. It is incredible how he can switch. I probably wouldn't believe it either. You are right, this has messed with my head something terrible, so I am not sure if these dreams are more for my sanity or more for the urgency - even tough I fully agree, there is change coming. It has to. You are also right, I am fearful and need to walk through that fear. I pray I don't hear God's timing through my fear, but with all the insecurity going on in my life, I need to be able to at least trust God to make it known to me in ways that I fully understand, that this is the day to leave. Thank you again so much!!!!! Blessings, Glad

Ok, this is my response to Glad! Lots of prayers that she receieves it well!!! Hi Glad, I hope this pm finds you doing well. After reading some of your threads on your recent dreams, I feel very strongly about sending you this message, and a huge sense of urgency. I hope you will pray on what things I am saying here, and if you feel an inner peace that you will begin to take action (in spite of any fears or doubts you may have). I want you to know that none of this comes from a place of judgement towards you or yours by any means. I feel like I must obey what I feel the Lord is speaking to me to encourage you, and what you choose to do with it is entirely up to you. I do feel extremely moved by your stabbing threads and recent warning dreams the Lord has benn giving you, and I sense that there is for sure some serious emotional abuse going on. Especially if you are starting to become fearful that your husband is going to get physical. This is such a tender subject for me, being a child that grew up seeing my mom physically and emotionally abused for years. I almost followed in her footsteps, if not for the total grace of God! It is a very scary and sensitive subject. What I notice MOST in both the older post, and your recent responses is a hesitation to take action. One thing to note in an abusive situation is the abuser totally strips the abused of all self confidence to keep control. I feel like you are doubting your own better judgement by staying in this relationship as it stands right now. Im praying that God will give you the confidence, & encouragement that you need to know that you are doing the right thing. Because in an abusive relationship you will never get confidence and encouragement from the other party. When you refer to 'timing' in one of your older posts, waiting on the right timing, in my opinion those are only your fears talking. I strongly feel like this 'waiting to know if this is the right timing to get your family out of this situation' is keeping you immobile. God is warning you NOW with these dreams, to prevent things from escalating. The warnings are coming NOW, because NOW is the time, TODAY is the day to seek help and refuge. I really feel as you start taking heed to these warnings, and start seeking out a transition plan, that the doors and opportunities are waiting for you, right NOW. I feel as you walk in faith, and trust God with this, that these doors will open and present themselves to you as you actively pursue the best route of escape for your family. I also feel like this transition will be a seemless and smooth one, as God will order your steps. I will be praying for the doors to open, so that you and your kids all can safely escape this situation. HE will make a way for you! 1 Corinthians 10:13 There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it. (I have to add here, that God gave my mother several opportunities to get out of her situation. Each time she waited, the abuse got worse and the opportunties weren't as good and the obticales were larger as more time went on! Even so, he still delivered her...but it could have been much easier if she left earlier.) The damage that is being done by remaining in this situation, could shape your children's relationships forever. By standing up in this situation, you will be showing your kids by your actions, that you (and the kids) have value. By taking good care of yourself, and not allowing yourself to be mistreated, you are showing your kids that they should also take good care of themselves and not allow themselves to be mistreated in the future! Even if you only leave for a time, and you and your husband get couseling and work on things in the marriage, this is setting a good example of boundaries to the kids. It also shows them to never allow others to mistreat them. Kids learn by what we do, not what we say. And your actions, or inaction is speaking loudly to them. I am praying for this situation. I feel such a sense of URGENCY for you and your family. Like you really need to consider starting to quietly pursue an escape route, ASAP!! This is what is strong in my heart for you and your family. I cant express how STRONGLY I feel that NOW is the time for this intervention. We dont know where your husbands heart is at, or what things will conspire in the near future, or what things have been put into place to make things go smoothly for the furture of your family. Please take everything I have spoken to prayer, and if you feel like I hve missed the mark I apoligize whole heartedly. I just couldn't sit back and hold back what I felt that the Lord was urging me to encourage you to do in this time. Lots of Love, Ecouragement, and Prayers Headed your way right now!! If your heart feels a confirmation to this message, please follow that leading. I KNOW that you have it in you to get through this! YOU CAN DO THIS!! Dont doubt that you are equipt to handle this situation with HIM (God) having your back!!!! All things will be worked out for you and your family's good purpose that God has planned. All of the many details will be handled by the almighty one, as you begin to actively move in the direction He is leading you. Please dont hesitate to keep me posted with how you are doing, and to let me know if you need prayer!! ❤️

Thanks Mia!!! I will do it right now. Hope all is well! Hugs!!

Hi all, sorry for my lack of presence lately. Its been quite hectic here. I do feel moved with this thread, being an child that grew up seeing my mom physically and emotionally abused for years. I almost followed in her footsteps, if not for the total grace of God! It is a very scary and sensitive subject. What I notice MOST in both the older post, and her recent responses to you is her hesitation to take action. One thing to note in an abusive situation is the abuser totally strips the abused of all self confidence to keep control. She is doubting herself, and abandoning common sense by staying in this situation (the second of which I wouldn't say to her, but will be praying for her about). She needs confidence, & encouragement that she is doing the right thing. Because we all know she wont get confidence and encouragement from him. The whole 'timing' thing she is referring to, in my opinion are only her fears talking. This is keeping her immobile. God is warning her NOW, to prevent things from escalating. The warnings are coming now, because NOW is the time, TODAY is the day to seek help and refuge. I will be praying for the doors to open, so that they can escape this situation. HE will make a way for her! 1 Corinthians 10:13 There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it. The damage that is being done by remaining in this situation, could shape her children's relationships forever. By standing up in this situation, she will be showing her kids by her actions, that she (and the kids) have value. By taking good care of herself, and not allowing herself to be mistreated, she is showing her kids that they should also take good care of themselves and not allow themselves to be mistreated in the future! Even if she leaves for a time, and they get couseling and work on things in the marrage it is setting a good example of boundaries to the kids to never allow others to mistreat them. Kids learn by what we do, not what we say. I am praying for this situation. Please keep us posted as she updates you. Mia, if you feel anything I have posted here is appropriate to pass along to her, please feel free. It looks like you and her are pming in the posts you shared above. Im not sure that any of this should go in the thread. So yes, I feel in my heart, the old post you found is spot on with relating to this issue she is going through now. I feel a sense of URGENCY for her and her family. Like she needs to start quietly pursing and escape route, ASAP!! If you feel like I should PM her Mia, please let me know, and I will gladly do so.

As you make Jesus the first part of your day, He will multiply the rest to be able to get everything done you need to. =0)

Just some tips. When you feel overwhelmed like this, lists can be very helpful. I would order them from things are that due or in need of doing right away, down to med priority, to smallest priorty. Start with the top, and work your way down. Everytime you cross something off, you will feel better about it. Sometimes I feel so busy, but dont make a list, and then I still feel like there is a ton of things to still do. This makes me feel frustrated, because I feel like Im not getting anywhere. If you have a list, and you cross things off as you go, you can see you really are getting somewhere, and it help you to keep being productive. Hope this helps. =)

Cholette! Thank you SO MUCH for what you have spoken! You have encouraged me so much by your testimony! The things that you speak, are anointed SO of the Lord! Only He would know the Word that he gave me for her, and you spoke it and confirmed it just now! I have been told by the Lord that she would in fact bring healing to the nations! Thank you for giving me the confidence to continue to guide her in the path I know the Lord has for her! Bless you!!!!

Still struggling a bit. Math is still a huge challenge, so are managing her emotions. Even in her extra curricular activities, she is struggling with embracing herself. She used to love the stage, singing, dancing etc. All her friends are into sports (which she is not a huge sporty girl). Im finding she is wanting to 'fit' with her friends, instead of embracing herself. As a mom, its very difficult to watch. She had a performance (singing) tonight, and she hid her face behind her music sheets bc she didn't want her friends to see her singing. She was so caught up with seeing who was going to see her, that half the time she wasn't singing. I didn't criticize her afterwards, just said how great of a job she did. But it breaks my heart to see her struggling with herself so much right now. I just want her to be who God made her to be, and not to be afraid to let her strengths shine. Im not even kidding when I say she has the most beautiful singing voice I have EVER heard! I don't want to just throw in the towel, and say 'just quit' if your not into it. We have invested lots of money into this choir thing. She originally chose to do it at the beginning of the year. I hate to see these talents just fall to the wayside. I really know in my heart she has talent!! Help!!!!! I want to encourage her to keep being herself, but I also dont want to tell her 'who' she is. As a mom, I see her strengths, and at one time she really embraced them. Please say some prayers. Any words of encouragement???

My daughter is struggling in many areas. Math is her biggest struggle. She is struggling in other subjects too. Her biggest strugge is her confidence right now. I must say I struggle in this area as well, and am hoping I am not passing these insecurities unto her. She used to be so bold, confident, and joyful. She gives me such a hard time with homework, and studying..mostly probably its so hard for her. Her teachers say she is shy in class (never one of her attibutes), she is afraid of risking failure in front of classmates. After conferences, she asked me, "what did my teachers say bad about me?' This broke my heart. They said nothing but good things, with the exception of her being extreamly self concious, and below levels in math. She is starting to struggle on the playground. Very sensitive to everyword the kids say to her. It is starting to get clicky in 4th grade, and she doesn't feel like she is part of the 'cool crowd'. Social things have never been an issue for her in the past. I feel like the enemy is trying to attack her! He is defeated in JESUS name!! Please pray for my baby. Any suggestions helpful. I feel like I want to find a good mother daughter devotional, that can help instil more of Gods love, grace, and confidence inside of her. I want her to be confident in who God made her to be!!! Any really awesome suggestions for a daughter/mother devo for a 10 yr old girl??? Thanks everyone in advance!!!

Praying Mark! 🙏

Will do!!! Lord we pray and agree that you will quicken Deborah to remember where her cell phone is, or to simply have her come across where it lays!!! Help her to find this as quickly as possible, In Jesus' Name!! AMEN!!!!! Bless you! Let us know when you find it! I have lost things like this when Im really tired, and distracted with many thoughts. I hope you find it soon!!! =)

First of all, my personal belief is that you should have kept what you saw to yourself...and not told them about it. I believe GOD wants to teach you how to properly use this gift. I think he will show you things not to share with the individuals what you saw, but to pray for them privately or so that you can know how to encourage them in their walk when God opens the door for you to encourage them. Sometimes, The Lord might want you to wait on him for his timing on when to encourage someone in The Lord with what you saw. For instance, with seeing your mom being half in and half out, perhaps waiting for the right opportunity to encourage her to fully commit herself to The Lord would have been much more powerful than sharing with her what you actually saw. This is just my opinion. I personally think as you steward faithfully over this gift, you will flow in it more frequently. Keeping in mind that this gift is for the building up and edifying of others, to encourage them to walk closer with The Lord.

Thanks so much to all of you for your prayers!! I so need them!!! Got a BUSY week ahead!

Thanks everyone!!! God is SO GOOD!!!!

I apologize again for my absence lately. Hopefully in the next few weeks I will be back on here, able to contribute more. We are gearing up for the move, which is next Friday. I would very much appreciate any prayers you guys could offer for me. Moving three times in one year, with small kids I might add, is quite exhausting. Im really looking forward to getting settled for our whole family. My daughter kind of freaks out (and I think I am very much on edge too) with change. Please pray for a smooth transition, AND for calm emotions within our home during all this. Thanks everyone!!!!

I have prayed with my son when he was little to ask Jesus into his heart, he was like 3...but he was prompted by me. This past Sunday, he graduated in Children's Church and got to go into the BIG kids room, since he is officially a kindergartner now. They had an alter call in children's church for anyone who wanted to ask Jesus into their hearts, and the pastors wife said that he was the first to go up! Not only that she said he RAN to the alter!!!! I started bawling when she told me, because this time there was no coaching from mom, it was ALL on his own!! There is no greater reward as a mom, than to see your kids moving in the direction of Gods ways for their lives! I praise you Jesus!!!!!

I came into my daughters room the other night, and she said "You know what Im doing mom? Im praying in the Spirit!!" Praise God!!! We found a new church, and the kids ministry is AMAZING!! They were teaching on the baptism of the Holy Spirit last week, and low and behold my daughter now knows how to pray in the Spirit!!!

Amen!!

Praise God Jasmine!!! Im so happy for you sweetheart!!!!!!